So with our personal preferences in mind we've decided not to have a cake...or cupcakes, or any version of a cake like substance.
Since we don't want to leave those sugar loving people out to dry (I do have a pastry chef for a sister-in-law after all), we've decided to do something fun for dessert that we both enjoy.
No decisions have been made yet, but I'm leaning towards an old favorite, ice cream sandwiches!
Source: thekitchn